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 - [Falsehoods About
 Gender](https://gist.github.com/garbados/f82604ea639e0e47bf44) - Gender is part
 of human identity and has its own subtleties.
+- [Gay marriage: the database engineering perspective](https://qntm.org/gay) - Perspective on gender, naming and relationships, all wrapped up in relational database thinking. 
 - [XKCD #327: Exploits of a
 Mom](https://xkcd.com/327/) - Funny take on how implementation of a falsehood
 might lead to security holes.